Whoever you are, I just have to say that if you feel anything at all for this person, then you should talk to them. It's never too late to make things right if there is still something between you. And as to your statement of happiness- since when does being in a relationship mean that you have to give up doing things for yourself anyways? Sounds like you didn't communicate what you wanted very effectively. To you I say grow a pair & ask this person to start over. The worst they can say is no & it is better to know then to wonder. Good luck to you.